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Interpersonal Violence: Masculinity

This Guide contains a variety of resources meant to help people better recognize interpersonal violence when it is happening, and how to find help out of these types of situations.

Toxic Masculinity

Clenched Fist: Toxic Masculinity Always Equals Violence

"In a time where the plight of Bill Cosby is mourned just as it is celebrated, yet not his victims. When Donald Trump supporters forget the evils such patriarchy and bullying has done in America, we pause as one details their own relationship to hetero-patriarchal masculinity and the ways it always equals violence." X-tian Whitfield
 

Toxic Masculinity

"If we want to end the pandemic of rape, it’s going to require an entire global movement of men willing to do the hard work of interrogating the ideas they were raised with." Jaclyn Friedman
 

Stop Hurting Women: We Belong to Ourselves Despite Violent Male Entitlement

"Women should have the unequivocal right to say no. Women should have absolute dominion over their own bodies. Women should not, as I have so many times, apologize for rejecting a man. [Content note: descriptions of violence, gendered violence, rape, physical assault, sexual assault, death]" Julie Feng
 

When Masculinity Fails Men

"Let me ask you a serious question: would you want to be part of a system that sets standards that are literally impossible for many – if not most – people to achieve?  What about one where you’re expected to be always on the verge of violence? One where the only acceptable emotion is perpetual anger? One that requires that you sever or truncate most of your emotional relationships in pursuit of  membership? Especially when your membership is continually in danger of being stripped from you through random circumstance?" Dr. Nerdlove

Redefining Masculinity